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Feb 20, 2012

Today I have a day off so I'm...

Doing laundry.
Lots of it.
Organizing EVERYTHING.
Attempting to be crafty.
Decorating for St. Patty's Day.

So look what I made...


I had an old wreath I had bought years ago that I hated. It's a straw wreath which is not ideal for this project but it's do-able. A styrophone or plastic wrapped wreath would work better. You can buy such wreaths at my favorite online shop, Oriental Trading, go here to check them out! This is a large one and it's less than 5 bucks. Heck yes!

My husband LOVES St. Patty's Day so I thought I should decorate a bit for him.

This is a medium size wreath so I only had to use one roll of yarn.
I bought the yarn at Walmart for $2.75, it's a forest green color but there are tons of awesome green colors, the thicker the better on the yarn.

I just tied the firt loop around and started wrapping it round and round while watching reality TV shows on E! I like those slimey shows, what can I say.

I wrapped it all the way around. Make sure you keep each strand close to the next one so you have no gaps. I sucked at this and still ended up with some gaps. Eh.

Then I already had a wooden "A," for Awesome. Not really it's our family last name, but we are Awesome so it works. I then made a clover out of green ribbon and a large silver button in the middle, it turned out better than I expected but still may not actually look like a clover to some. Humor me.

Then I made a cute little tiny banner that says, "lucky". Awww. Cute right!?!

It's fun. It's green. And now I feel more jazzed about St. Patricks Day.

Look at me being all domestic.

Feb 10, 2012

Frame is and Love it!

I have been doing the 14 Days of Valentines for GQ this month. Now before you start thinking what an amazing wife I am and how I'm trying to out-shine other wives, I have to say that I've been terrible at it!

I've missed a couple of days and left him with an empty box which is probably worse than no box at all. I made him a giant cookie last night (he loves giant cookies) and burned the edges, I just flat out forgot one whole day and I accidentally listed ALL of his gifts on our grocery list that HE took to the store, so he bought all his own presents. Genius right.

But today is going to be different. I have a great little present (so I think). I thought I'd share the idea that I totally stole off of Pinterest.

I found this cute little picture (I liked the colors a lot and they match our bedroom)...


The picture says "I love you because..." in a yellow, red and baby blue color scheme.
I will be framing it in a 5X7 frame.
And then I bought some dry erase markers so we could write lovey dovey messages to each other.
For my blind friends, I also though of doing a magnet board instead and using braille letter magnets.

I can't wait to write some sweet things on it life...

I love you because...

You make me work out at 5 am which I really hate your for at the time but love you for in the end.
You're gassy like me.
You shower on a daily basis even though you sometimes forget deodorant.
You make me delicious food and cook for me (thank heaven or I'd starve).
You work out so your super hot.
You leave your nasty, sweaty socks all balled up so I can then un-ball them to put in the laundry basket which reminds me you workout therefor you're hot.
You make me smile when I want to be grumpy.
You don't tell anyone all the WEIRD and CRAZY things I say.

See doesn't this seem like fun!

I say if you're single you should make one anyway and tell yourself why you love you, I'm doing this too for my office. I could use a little reminder to think about reasons why I love me, how about you?

Feb 4, 2012

GQ's Secret Admirer, With Love...

I just HAD to share this will all of you...

My brother-in-law, husband and I came out of Chilis tonight and found this on our car windsheild (obviously to MY hubby)...

"Hey cutie I just saw your car here so I decided to leave you a note. I need to come up to your work and get some counciling sessions anywho don't be so shady with me anymore. And you may not know who this is but trust me once you realize what your true heart disires you'll know it was me. XOXO Your Love"

Spelling errors and lack of punctuation included. Uhm. Yeah. So this was the PERFECT ending to my CRAZY, I-don't-even-know-how-to-describe week!

I CANNOT stop laughing every time I read this!

Feb 2, 2012

Who's Responsibility is Safety?

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A recent article in the Ruston Daily Leader caught my attention. A blind Louisiana Tech student was talking about bicyclists on campus and the dangers they can cause for a blind person.

I read several articles a year about various dangers the blind face, lack of beeping street lights, other pedestrians, no sidewalk warnings (the raised dots on the sidewalk found at street corners), skateboarders, you name it, I’ve probably read an article about it.

I agree that such things as bicyclists and pedestrians mixing could become a bad combination, but I also believe this has little or nothing to do with blindness; it’s a risk for anyone. Every day we all, sighted or blind, take a calculated risk of leaving our homes and doing something.

Whether we walk, drive, ride a bike, take the bus, whatever it is, there’s a risk involved.
While I do understand the importance of safety, I also have learned some things in the last five or so years since using a cane; the most important is safety is primarily my responsibility. I think with the proper training my world is just as safe for me, as a blind person, as anyone else.

I have learned that the best way for me to live my life is to learn the proper skills to adapt to my environment, not have my environment adapt to me.

One of the best examples of this I can think of is audible signals at lighted intersections. This is the little beep or chirp or whatever sound is selected at the intersection that tells pedestrians when it’s safe to cross the street. I’m not aware we have any here in Ruston, but I won’t be asking for them anytime soon either.

These signals are often found in bigger cities and can actually be helpful for a variety of pedestrians who use them. However, as a blind person who likes to get around independently, I’ve found my time is better spent learning the skills I need to cross a street safely than advocating for a beeping signal that, in my opinion, is not necessary.

As a blind person, I use cues from my natural environment every day. I use traffic patterns to line up at intersections and then cross them, for me a beeping signal of when it’s safe to cross is not helpful. If anything the beeping noise blocks out my most important sound cue, traffic.

Now while I say I am not going to be asking the City of Ruston for audible signals any time soon, I also understand that for some pedestrians they are valuable.

Many of my fellow colleagues in the blindness field focus so much research, resources and time on safety-related issues for the blind that they miss the whole part about giving us proper training and preparing us for our environment.

Several cane travel instructors in this country, who are mostly not blind themselves, make ridiculous suggestions about our safety as blind people: Carry a giant orange flag, wear a bright reflective vest, carry our own stop sign, wear little lights all over our body. I might as well wrap myself in bubble wrap before I head out; these ideas are crazy and unnecessary.

I believe blind people, given the proper tools for success, can travel around an un-adapted environment like everyone else. If we want equality in the world, we have to learn to adapt to the world and not expect it to adapt to us. I’m not against adding things to increase safety for those who really need it; I know it’s important for some.

Louisiana Tech is no less safe than any other university in the world. Thousands of pedestrians travel across college campuses every day. Many have encounters with bicyclists. It’s the way it is.
Blind people have the same responsibility and opportunity as everyone else, and we need to do our part and accept the things that come with being independent.

Deja M. Powell is programs manager at the Professional Development and Research Institute on Blindness at Louisiana Tech University and a 2008 alumna of the Louisiana Center for the Blind in Ruston. She writes a monthly column for the Daily Leader.

Jan 17, 2012

Bad News

I was catching up on my daily lunch hour news when I came across this article from a Utah news station. The title of the article made me laugh, "Lack of snow makes riding hard for snowmobilers." I just wanted to shout out, "WELL DUH!"
For those who don't know, I actually graduated with a journalism degree so stuff like this catches my attention. Here are some of my favorite, even more (unintentionally)  HILLARIOUS news stories headlines from 2011 (with my commentary)...

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Man allegedly wounded by two 'booty call ninjas'
*WTC?"

2.

Cops: Woman had 81 pounds of illegal junk in her trunk.
*And I thought I had a lot of junk in MY trunk, dang.

3.

Man dressed as Breathalyzer sentenced to jail for DUI
*Isn't it ironic? Don't you think?

4.

China bans time travel.
*Darn it. So much for my weekend plans to go back to 1998.

5.

France set to smash B.O. records
*Seriously, take a shower people.

6. 

Man learns life lesson in naked fight with javelinas
*I bet he did!!

7.

Teenager charged with drink driving blames crash 'on boyfriend who didn't take her to see new Twilight film.
*First off, "drink" driving? is the reporter drunk too!?! Secondly, this girl needs a new boyfriend, seriously.

8.
 
Teen robbed of meatball sub at gunpoint.
*I've been that hungry before, I understand.

9.

Lohan's second trip to the morgue is success
*Define success.

10.

5 stabbed at 'welcome home from jail' party
*Awesome!

Source: http://www.buzzfeed.com/mjs538/the-50-funniest-headlines-of-2011

Here's to hoping 2012 gives us more idiots and bad journalists! Cheers!

Jan 14, 2012

Feeling Blue and Gray...

I am normally a go bold or go home kind of girl when it comes to fashion. I like it bold, bright and fun! But today I'm feeling a bit more subdued...

Tonight I am "going to the city" (that's what we say in the south when we go to the BIG city which is Monroe, Louisiana population 49,000), for a fancy dinner night out with good friends. I'm excited for ANY chance I get to dress up around here because it doesn't happen all that often.

Recently a certain color scheme has caught my attention, I want to know what you guys think. I'm thinking of these colors for tonight.

Gray
Silver
Black &
Robin Egg Blue

Really boring from me right!?! But sometimes I get a vision and just have to go for it.

Check out these colors together...
Light Grey, gold, white, robins egg blue
Dining foom with robin egg blue armoir, white flowers and gray seat covers and walls.

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Bedroom with gray, white and robin egg blue planks on the wall, white duvet with blue pillows.

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Robin Egg Blue nail polish by ORLY.

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Robin egg blue under shirt, scarf and shoes, with black pants and gray peacoat.

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Wallpaper, bedroom, pearls, dining room, felt flowers all in gray and robin egg blue.

So what do you think? Blue and gray all the way or blue and gray, no way?

Jan 13, 2012

Cross Stitching

I sometimes sit here  too long and think about what I should write on this blog. Who's reading it? How personal can I really be? Who really cares about my personal and/or professional life? Maybe I should wait until later when I feel more witty and funnier. Maybe I'll be boring and steer people away, maybe I already have. Maybe I think WAY too much.

I once was told a great story about our perspective on life. Imagine a grandchild sitting on the floor watching his grandma do a cross stitch. From below it looks like this huge mess,  doesn't make any sence and just looks awkward. But from grandma's perspective she has an image she is creating, a pattern she is following to create a really cool picture. This story stuck with me. I love the concept that from "down here" are life looks a little chaotic and messy but God has a picture he's working on and from his perspective it's going just as planned. It makes that age old saying, "look at the bigger picture" make more sense to me, it's more real for me now.

For most of my life, I thought my vision, or lack of, was my biggest curse. I didn't cry over it everyday or feel sorry for myself (all the time anyway) but I certainly thought it was my down fall, that thing in my life that stopped me from FULLY reaching my full potential. I always felt like I was a good kid, a good person, got good grades, did most things well and excelled for having the "issue" I had. I always, always knew that there was more in there, I knew I wasn't just good or mediocre, it was in me I just knew it.

I know now it wasn't my blindness that stopped me it was my lack of training, lack of knowlege about blindness and lack of good skills. That gives me a slight bit of comfort knowing that it wasn't all mental for me, there actually was something(s) missing.  I have come a long way but I still don't feel like I'm living up to my full potential. I actually hope I always feel this way a little, I enjoy learning (even the hard way at times) and I want to wake up everyday feeling like I am not doing my best.

Lately I have been questioning my life a bit. I work with blind kids, blind adults, I write a column on blindness, I go on work and consumer organization trips, I work all day on braille advocasy. I'm basically emerced in the blindness field. I question if I am supposed to be doing this. Maybe I should be the blind person that's out there surrounded by sighted people proving blind people can be an active part of society. I do think about these things. How did I end up here, the girl who would NEVER claim to be blind for the majority of her life is now an active member of the blind community.

I'm passionate about what I do and what I believe, for the first time in my life I believe in something so much that I'm willing to make enemies over it. I never stood up for anything the way I do my job, my blind kids, myself. Where did this come from? When did I stop caring so much that EVERYONE liked me and cared more about standing strong in my beliefs? I feel like I went from one extreme to the next and sometimes don't walk that tight-rope well.

Perhaps it is normal for us to all stop and question things now and then. Perhaps it's normal to stop and think how you got from here to there. Perhaps it's normal to question ourselves every now and then. Perhaps.

Sometimes the view from down here seems a little confusing but it's comforting to know there's a picture in the works. All we can do is hope what we are doing is making an impact, that somehow we are making even the smallest change in the world. That we are waking up everyday wanting to leave a mark or simply cross one stitch.

Jan 10, 2012

Who wants money???

If you are a blind college student, or future blind college student. YOU DO NOT WANT TO MISS THIS OPPORTUNITY. Of all things I've endorsed on this blog, this is NUMBER ONE! This scholarship is how I learned about and entered the blindness field, it literally changed the course of my life. The scholarship is ALL CASH and it's a HUMUNGO opportunity. Don't miss it, I'm super serious...

If you want me to forward you the application, leave your email in the comment box and I will forward it to you.

THE 2012 NFB SCHOLARSHIP PROGRAM

Dear
College Students:

Are you legally blind and will you be a full-time college student in the fall 2012 semester? The National Federation of the Blind Scholarship Program Application Form is online at www.nfb.org/scholarships
along with all rules for eligibility and additional information. (A print application form is available upon request.)

Our Scholarships:
  1 for $12,000
  1 for $10,000
  2 for $7,000 each
  4 for $5,000 each
22 for $3,000 each
plus additional gifts to each winner

The deadline to submit the application form and all required support documents is three months away­March 31, 2012­so there is still plenty of time, especially if you have the other required documents ready to upload from your computer to the online application form. 

We prefer DOC, DOCX, and RTF file formats, though we accept PDF. We prefer PDF for school transcripts and SAT/ACT scores.  We also accept documents via mail or as attachments to an email.

Students, it is never too early to begin to assemble your documents.  Please read the details on the 2012 program right now by going to our website at www.nfb.org/scholarships. The “Submission Checklist” on our website lists the full set of requirements and the FAQ page provides additional information on what the scholarship committee expects to find in a winning application packet. 

More good news – In addition to this national scholarship program, many of our state affiliates have their own scholarship program for blind students living in their state or attending college in their state. When you contact your state’s NFB president to set up your personal interview, be sure to discover whether the state affiliate has a statewide scholarship program.  (You must request the interview before the deadline; the interview itself may take place after the deadline if you and the president wish.)  For contact information, go to www.nfb.org, then to FAST FACTS, then tap on the Presidents List and follow the links to your state.

Cordially,

Patti Chang, Esq.
Chairperson, NFB Scholarship Committee
NATIONAL FEDERATION OF THE BLIND
       at Jernigan Place
200 East Wells Street
, Baltimore, MD 21230
Office:  (410) 659-9314, x2415
E-mail:
  scholarships@nfb.org
Website:  www.nfb.org/scholarships

P. S.: The deadline is March 31, 2012.

Jan 6, 2012

Fun, Fabulous and 50...

I was able to go home for the holidays and was able to leave a little bit early to celebrate my mom's 50th birthday!
My little sister and I have been planning this for a while and wanted to make it super special, after all we have a great mom!

My mom is a humungo Betty Boop fan. She has loved her since as long as I can remember, she has a Betty Boop shrine in her home for heck's sake. So a Betty Boop Diva themeed party seemed perfect!

Many of the items for the party were hand made, we wish we could have spent a trazillion dollars on a fun party but so tried to be crafty and still classy. So I wanted to show you how it all came together, you ready...

The Treat Table

Sucker displays I mad with wrapping paper, a foam cube, ribbon and buttons.
Cute suckers from Oriental Trading Company

Cute cookie display. Red and hot pink sugar cookies from Reams bakery in Magna, Utah.




"Still a Hot Tamale" candy display.



Big Red gum vase and Cherry display.


The cookies were so pretty and even more delicous!



Betty's Bar was a huge hit throughout the night! ;)


We also had a fun Betty Boop Kissing Booth


Candy wax lips for some HOT pictures!



We also had lips and a stick for more red hot photo ops...


The kissing booth was also equipped with paper and pens to write sweet notes to the birthday girl...



And of course there was food and lots of it...





Lots of fun was had by all, especially the birthday girl!

Happy Birthday to one terrific mom! Muah!




Jan 5, 2012

Column: A little more give, a little less take.


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As we all sit down to make our New Year’s resolutions for 2012. We all hope we can keep, at least one of them in my case. For many of us we have a sudden urge at the beginning of a new year to start fresh and take care of ourselves and others.

For some reason the holidays come around and the New Year starts and we all feel like being a little more generous. I started thinking about this, with the help of a blind friend of mine from Utah, and how that can relate to blind people.

For thousands of years, even from biblical times, a common image of a blind person has been that of a blind beggar.

That’s the first thing I ever heard about a blind person, the story of the blind beggar seeking money and food. It continues to be in a large number of countries, and that includes the United States, the image that comes to mind for many.

For many, many years blind people have been the recipients of people’s generosity. It’s not uncommon for blind people or blindness related organizations to be on the receiving end of fundraising events and charity drives.

Now I’m not saying this is totally wrong, in fact I have been on the side of asking people to help donate to organizations and groups of the blind that are important to me. However, I think there is a change in the air and more and more blind people are now on the other side of charitable giving.
For me, and many of my blind friends, participating in fundraising or charity events for our communities, organizations (local and national), environmental projects, after school clubs, can food drives, gift collections and other charitable causes is a large part of our lives. Many of my good friends are part of the Peace Corps, volunteer organizations, political campaigns, the United Way and many, many other groups that I could never list them all.

This shift is already under way but it’s also important, for us as blind people, to step up and be willing to give back when there is a call for help. It’s also important for members of our communities to think twice about not including us in projects that come up.

For many there may be a hesitancy in knowing what exactly to do with a blind person. This is a normal feeling but one that needs to be altered. Blind people come equipped with a variety of talents and contributions and can bring a whole lot to your fundraising or community campaign.
Recently I participated in an event here in Ruston to benefit the Junior Auxiliary of Ruston.
We, the National Federation of the Blind of Louisiana North Central Chapter, wanted to host an event for meet the blind month but more importantly we wanted to do something to show we were invested in the community that is Ruston. We decided to do a charity fashion show. When the all-blind member committee started meeting, and assignments started to be handed out, I was amazed to see the diversity in talents that each member brought to the table.

We had people who were great at socializing and mingling that did great work with advertising, we had people who were excellent with sound and technology that helped with music, lighting, videography and sound.

We had those who had planned similar events in the past who were great at organizing people. We had those who knew about graphic design to help design tickets, programs and flyers. We even had a blind artist design our event logo.

It was amazing and impressive the amount of diverse talent in the room. We were able to pull off our event and raise more than $800 for our charity of choice. It was great for me to be a part of as even I was skeptical of all us blind people pulling off such an event. I’m not so skeptical anymore.
There’s a job for any of us when it comes to volunteering and doing charitable work, the same is for people who are blind and visually impaired.

Next time you hold an event, a fundraiser, an auction, a project, ask that blind person you may know if and how they would like to contribute. You may be pleasantly surprised that they can be a great addition to your project.

Stay strong and keep those resolutions my friends; do something for someone else and I think 2012 will be the best year ever.

Deja M. Powell is programs manager at the Professional Development and Research Institute on Blindness at Louisiana Tech University and a 2008 alumna of the Louisiana Center for the Blind in Ruston. She writes a monthly column for the Daily Leader.

Jan 3, 2012

Inch by Bloody Inch

As I'm sitting here trying to make up a list of my New Year's Resolutions for 2012, it just seems so overwhelming and I want to just scream because it's too much for me to take (because I do have SO much to improve on). Then...I cane across this great article and it really did calm me down.

I will post my resolutions as soon as they make it officially to paper.

This article is from one of my most favorite people, Miss Kristen Cox. It's a must read. Seriously. Remember one inch at a time when you're making those New Year's Resolutions!

http://kristencoxut.blogspot.com/2012/01/game-of-inches.html

Good luck everyone. You can do it!

Dec 13, 2011

Blind or Sighted, Love is Love!

Blindness not factor in relationships


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Whenever I am doing any kind of presentation on blindness, the most common and most popular questions I get asked are about dating and relationships. I think this subject is a popular one for a lot of reasons. First, people are just fascinated with love and relationships. Look at what’s in the media now. Kim Kardashian, Demi and Ashton, politicians and their relationship fiascos. It’s a popular topic.
Second, there are a lot of misconceptions about blind people when it comes to dating and relationships. Some think blind people only date and marry other blind people. Some don’t understand how we court each other and some don’t understand how we do the most basic (and important) things like kiss. I know it sounds super odd, but you would be surprised how many times I’ve been asked how I kiss.

You will soon discover blind people dating, either each other or a person who’s sighted, is really not very interesting. Wait, don’t stop reading. I promise I’ll try to make it interesting! Dating/courting, weddings, marriages, children, they all work for us the same as they work for everybody. Some dates are horrible, some are fantastic. Some marriages work, some don’t. Many have children, some do not. It’s always important to remember that blindness is a characteristic and only a characteristic.

The most common question I get asked is if blind people only date and marry other blind people. Of course the answer to this is no. I don’t have the statistics on this, but I imagine it’s probably pretty even. Just like any other relationship, it depends on correct timing, similar personal interests and personalities that mesh and physical attraction, whether the person is blind or sighted.

I have been asked, on several occasions, how that last one works. Physical attraction is just as important to a blind person as anyone else. You have to have a physical connection of some kind with your significant other. It works the same no matter what, there is either a connection or not.

I personally have dated blind and sighted guys. I happen to have recently married a sighted guy. However, the situations of dating a sighted guy versus a blind guy really do play out the same. It was interesting, in all of my relationships, how quickly we adapted to each other. It’s less traumatic than you might think for a sighted man to date/marry a blind woman. You figure out how to go places via taxi, car, walking, with friends, etc. It’s a pretty seamless process for the most part. There are small changes like any relationship, but it’s surprisingly uneventful for most.

Now I’m not saying there are not glitches that come up. Like any relationship you have to work some things out. When my husband and I first started dating, we were walking to a local restaurant. I was walking along using my cane on the sidewalk, on the side closest to the road. As we walked he kept stepping to my side of the sidewalk forcing me to move in. I was, at first, quietly irritated. My first thought was, “What a jerk. He thinks I can’t walk along the road?” After a few moments of my pure stubbornness I told him to, “Stop it! I’m perfectly capable of walking safely.” He paused and proceeded to tell me that his mama taught him that a true gentleman always walks closest to the street when walking with a lady. I felt pretty embarrassed at the whole situation and realized I didn’t have to prove my independence all the time; I needed to let him be a gentleman. It was a small glitch, but one we always talk about.

I often get asked by people who just met me if my husband is blind or sighted. I have always wondered why this question is so important to people. Maybe it’s just curiosity. But remember, blind people have the same mental checklist when it comes to dating. We have the same inner gauge of chemistry, we know if it’s right or it’s not, we have horrible break-ups and happy endings. The bottom line is, blindness is not much of a factor in the dating process. While little adaptions may take place, ultimately all the important stuff (not related to blindness) play the most important part in finding love.

Deja M. Powell is programs manager at the Professional Development and Research Institute on Blindness at Louisiana Tech University and a 2008 alumna of the Louisiana Center for the Blind in Ruston. She writes a monthly column for the Daily Leader.

Dec 1, 2011

Lessons Learned from Little Men

I feel very introspective these days. I have taken time every day to really think about life and the people in my life. I know I sound like Oprah here but my heart seems really heavy both in worry AND in gratitude.

 In case you weren't aware, I have thee most ADORABLE nephews in the universe. Even though I am way too far away from them, they teach me so much. Here are some lessons I've learned from them...

Best Friends will ALWAYS be there for you no matter what.


It's ALWAYS a good idea to stop doing what your doing and take a nap once in a while...


Mickey Mouse makes everyone smile.

Don't be afraid to let loose and be silly every now and then...


Grandpa's are the best ones to have conversations with, they know everything...


Even if your grandpa is in heaven, he's always watching out for you...



Friends come and go but grandma's are ALWAYS there for you...




Sometimes in life we miss things because we just don't open our eyes wide enough...






Life can get rough but one steady force will always be your mom...



Always, always smile no matter what you are wearing, that smile with stand out...





Always remember not to work too hard, stop and play once in a while...


And most importantly, if mom, dad, grandma and grandpa say, "No!" Ask your auntie. She will always give you sugar right before bed time...



To my Nut Job (Iszacc) and my Gavinator, thanks for teaching me so much.
I love you my little dudes!
-Auntie Dej